For Tiffany, the breaking point came with a slammed door and a violent crash. Her 28-year-old nephew Stephen, living in her spare bedroom, had just learned his community college credits wouldn’t transfer due to poor grades. But this crisis became the catalyst for transformation that would change both their lives. Behind Closed Doors Stephen’s story might sound familiar to many families. A young man who showed early promise – played sports, had friends, passed his classes – suddenly seemed stuck. After losing his mother early and having an absent father, his aunt Tiffany became his guardian. But somewhere along the way, the sweet boy who once held her hand crossing the street disappeared behind walls of silence and secretive behavior. Understanding Failure to Launch This pattern represents what experts call “failure to launch” – a growing challenge among Millennials struggling to transition into adulthood. The causes are complex: Economic pressures from the 2008 financial crisis Increased competition in the job market Rising student debt Shifting societal milestones Personal identity struggles The Breakthrough The real transformation began when Tiffany learned to step back. Through professional guidance, she: Stopped hovering and completing tasks for Stephen Created clear boundaries and expectations Joined support […]
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